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The History of Foot Fetishism

It seems that people really love feet. It's considered the most common fetish, not only in fantasy, but also in practice. This creates many questions, such as where did it come from? How long has it been around? A cross-cultural historical study shows that this fetish is nothing new. GetLusty staff writer and history lover Matt Stickles takes a look back into history to explore our love of feet.

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Foot fetish is huge! It's everywhere... and always has been, it seems. The fetish can be traced back as far as the ancient Greeks, and it shows up all over the place from then till now. Its popularity isn't really that difficult to understand.

Most of us love having our feet rubbed and pampered, so if someone wants nothing more than to worship your feet, then hell yeah. Go to town. Studies have shown that foot fetishes are the most commonly pursued fetish throughout the world.

Many celebrities and famous figures have come out of the closet, such as F. Scott Fitzgerald, Thomas Hardy, Jay Leno, and even the great Casanova himself. However, just as any other fetish, it's considered to be taboo and weird. If it's so common, then why do we think it's so abnormal? What ever your opinion, the love for feet is nothing new.

The Greeks

The ancient Greeks had no problem expressing their love of feet. In fact, the basic unit of measurement we still use today, the “foot,” is commonly thought to have come from what they considered to be the length of a Goddess's foot. Goddesses drew powers and strength from their feet, in which their second toe was thought to have provided their male powers. Though feet were a source of power for Goddesses, they were still considered a private part of the female anatomy as Greek art depicts virgin Goddesses with their feet covered.

Now back in these days a woman was free to walk around with her breasts exposed, but if she revealed her foot, it was thought of as a blatant sexual advance.

In the Mediterranean

Around the 1st century, feet were still pretty important to cultures around the Mediterranean, and not just in Greece. Washing someone's feet was a huge sign of respect and admiration. Though it is not nearly as sexy as the Greeks' depiction of Goddesses, many accounts of the life of Jesus Christ reference foot washing. Also, washing the feet of house guests and strangers is still a common practice today in many Mediterranean cultures.

Western Europeans, STDs & feet 

Similar to the Greeks, religion was influential on what a woman's sexy foot was supposed to look like. The attractiveness of a woman's foot was based on the Christian belief that all physical characteristics were to be God-like. The poetry of the time reflects that the ideal female foot was white, narrow with high arches and long straight toes. Toe nails were supposed to be long with large white moons on pink pale nail beds.

Back when crusaders were returning from the Holy Land, an array of STDs came back with them. An increase in the amount of foot fetish material is seen during outbreaks of gonorrhea and syphilis.

More recently, evidence shows that there was an increase in foot fetishism during the AIDS epidemic of the early 1990s. In fact, according to one study of 8 pornographic magazines, pictures of bare feet increased explosively. This is not enough information to draw any real conclusions, but it does hint that when penetration is coupled with fear, people seem to be drawn to their feet to fulfill their sexual desires.

The Far East

No nation past or present can compare to the Chinese in their historical love affair with feet. Beginning with the Sung Dynasty, in the 10th century, young girls had their feet bound in order to preserve their daintiness. The Japanese also had their own cultural practice surrounding feet, in which a child of royalty would be carried up to the age of eight or ten as their feet were believed to be too pure to touch the Earth. According to extensive BBC research, "The bound foot was also a symbol of identity and virtue. A bound foot signified that a woman had achieved womanhood, and served as a mark of her gendered identity. The Neo-Confucian thinker Zhu Xi (1130-1200 AD) promoted foot binding in southern Fujian in an attempt to instill in the natives a sense of propriety and chastity." Chasity, indeed!

Feet have long been of cultural importance, whether it was erotic and sexy, or a sign of respect. Soon, we'll be talking more about getting lusty and we'll have more on exactly what is foot fetishism. For now, stay lusty!

Our newest writer is a history, sex and love... lover, Matt Stickles.

Matt is a recent grad from the University of Kansas with Bachelor's degrees in History and Anthropology. Matt currently lives just outside of Chicago. When Matt is not writing and reading articles on GetLusty for Couples, you can catch him getting drinks with friends, reading science fiction, watching the Jayhawks dominate college basketball, or hanging out with Hannah, his Bernese Mountain dog. Have questions, comments or concerns? E-mail him at matt@getlusty.com.

8 Sexy Pics From Tumblr Today (Some NSFW)

We love Tumblr. We're tumbling more lately on GetLusty's Tumblr page. Our favorite pictures of the day. After reviewing our Tumblr feed, we saw some pretty lovely pictures. Erotic, hot and sexy. So we thought in true GetLusty for Couples fashion--we'd share!

Speaking of social media, have you 'Liked' GetLusty on Facebook yet? We're giving away a Tiani 2 to a lucky 'Liker' by December 1st (yes, that's tomorrow). We're also on Pinterest and Tumblr, as well as Twitter @getlusty. What?! You're on those platforms and aren't in tune with our awesome content? Have amazing sex. Get lusty.

Gorgeous. via http://lucaspassmore.tumblr.com/


Hot. via http://mansexfashion.tumblr.com/

Again from http://mansexfashion.tumblr.com/

Oh, my! From machodesungao.tumblr.com

Big, lovely bottom! bootyhoneys.tumblr.com

True. Actually from http://imgfave.com/view/2115839

Sexy. http://iamawinrar.tumblr.com/

Rawr. from http://iamawinrar.tumblr.com/

Hilarious. From niknak79.tumblr.com

Try This! Yoga Dick

Not for the faint of heart, GetLusty is all about pushing boundaries, including getting more from sex positions. So how about athletic sex positions?

Disclaimer: If you're not athletic, don't try this position. If it hurts, please don't continue. Try a different version or different position--we have so many options!

How to get into it

This one is for the advanced lover. It's an athletic position that will require some maneuvering. However, why not? It's just plain fun. Also, an added benefit is relief from bad posture that happens sometimes in our everyday life. How? It offers a great workout that inspires the receiver (on the top) to open up their shoulders.

To start off, the giver (bottom) should lay on the ground below the ottoman. They should be erect at this point. Not erect? A loving blowjob is the best way to get it there. After, the receiver (on top) should put their feet on the ottoman and hands on the ground. Then, lift yourself up with your shoulders. The giver can put their hands on your ass to guide in the process, and start off! For the receiver: feel free to go as slow, deep or hard as you please.


Benefits for the giver
  • Rolling your pelvis across the ground on a carpet could give you carpet burn. But sometimes pain is pleasure.
  • Doing it on a yoga mat instead on the floor? You're doing a lot less work. Enjoy the break for a minute.
  • You're making love. Enjoy the moment!
  • This move looks like it came out of pornography. Here, you can both pretend you're acting in a porn (even potentially film yourselves if comfortable)
  • Talked to your partner during sex lately? Take this opportunity to voice your attraction while your mate is on top of you.
Benefits for the receiver
  • This will be an awesome workout!
  • Try lifting off slowly at first, grinding your butt into your partner's hips 
  • Long hair? You might want to put it back. Unless you like your hair pulled. In which case, try that out. You might like it.
  • Want to take a mini-break? This position moves quickly into one where you lie your feet flat on the floor for better leverage
We also recommend the other positions below, as well. We have a whole range of positions! Check out our full catalog of sex positions.

Our other sex position favs:
Comments? Questions? Include them below or e-mail us reply@getlusty.com.

7 Reasons You Should be Naked More Often


Naked November is almost over. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't continue to be naked! While you sleep naked, during our numerous ideas of fun, naked dates. It feels so good to be free of restrictions such as clothing, uniforms, and undergarments. Relax, unwind, and take a load off. We were born this way so, it's only natural to feel our most comfortable without anything blocking our freedom. Go ahead and peel away some of those extra layers even if it is winter, and turn up the heat so you can get naked with your partner. GetLusty's Eileen Prouffe reports.

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Why be naked? Let me count the ways.


#1 It feels amazing

Don't tell me it doesn't feel amazing to take off those tighty whitey's and thongs at the end of the day. I know the less clothes you have on the better and more relaxed you feel. It's OK to admit that you feel more comfortable when you are less confined. Don't be afraid to let lose; your body will be pleased.

#2 Give your partner the gift of nakedness

It's the holiday season and we're all thinking about giving. This holiday season, give your partner your gift of nakedness! Don't cover yourself up and try to hide in the bathroom when you are changing or when you just got out of the shower. Show off your clean and beautiful body. Give your partner something to look at and admire. So many people worry about their significant other looking at other people. Maybe you should try giving them something to admire so they don't want to look around? Your partner wants to see you.

#3 Become more self-aware

It's possible that if you are naked more often then you might be more self aware and conscious of what your body needs. A lot of times in America, people cover up their bodies with lots of clothing and pretend to not see their body. This is not a good idea. We should be self aware of what we look like in the mirror and to others and do what we can to improve our bodies wherever we can. Working on improving ourselves will only benefit us and our families. Let's face it, none of us are perfect, nor ever will be, but we can still put great effort into looking our best by paying attention to our bodies needs like needing to exercise more, drinking more water, or watching our portion sizes.

#4 Better sleep

Not only can sleeping naked help you feel more comfortable, but feeling comfy helps you to have better quality sleep. Having more rest can help you to function better each day versus waking up with a stiff neck and feeling unrested. No clothes may help you get a better nights rest by not getting tangled up in a nightgown or all sweaty because you are too hot and then you wake up feeling that you are not ready to tackle the day. Avoid sleeping in work or school clothes at all costs.

#5 It's healthy

Going naked can help your skin and genitals breathe and get some air. Sleeping naked can help prevent infections or bacteria build up. Also, wearing clothes or socks that are too tight can lower your blood circulation. Have you ever woke up with a bunch of marks on your skin where your pajama pants were on your waist or where your socks were on your legs? Yes, these items were constricting the blood flow of your body which probably means you were getting less oxygen to your brain. Overall, you probably didn't feel as revived as you you could have been in the morning. Skip the tight clothes for bedtime and get naked!

#6 Less social anxiety about nudity

Get comfortable with your naked body! The more you do it, the easier it gets during social situations like undressing for the doctor, looking at nude/erotic art, or even changing in locker rooms. I can remember when I was about 12 and went to a local fitness club next door to my parents home and a bunch of older women were completely naked and talking to each other like they were fully clothed. I couldn't believe it. However, I look back and now fully understand that they had nothing to hide and were completely comfortable with their bodies. This is something we should all strive for. There should be no shame in our game.

#7 Naked yoga

For those of you who like yoga or for those of you haven't tried yoga yet, you should try naked yoga. This is a great way for people to get in touch with your body, mind, and soul. No clothes to get in the way of stretching and creating your best pose.

I haven't tried it yet personally, but I really want to! It sounds very healing and relaxing. Don't be afraid to branch out and try something new. You can probably even get a private session if your not ready for a full blown class. This would be a great experience for you and your partner. Naked yoga here I come!

Speaking of nakedness, have you 'Liked' GetLusty on Facebook yet? We're giving away a Tiani 2 to a lucky 'Liker' by December 1st. We're also on Pinterest and Tumblr, as well as Twitter @getlusty. What?! You're on those platforms and aren't in tune with our awesome content? Have amazing sex. Get lusty. 

Eileen Prouffe is a GetLusty staff writer with over ten years as a working mom trying to keep her love alive. If she's not having fun with her three kids, she's staring into the eyes of her loving husband. She looks forward to sharing her ideas, tips and knowledge with everyone to help improve relationships and put an end to dull sex lives. Get in touch with Eileen at eileen@getlusty.com.

Ladies! 5 Ways to Orgasm More Intensely

We've written lots of articles on orgasms. We even dedicated October to Orgasms. about how to give intense orgasms. So what can be better than orgasming? Making those orgasms over the top. If you are already having great orgasms, here are a few steps you can take to make them even better. GetLusty staff writer, Milan Weasley reports.

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This article is very important for all the ladies out there. Have you ever been in a place where your orgasms aren't amazing? Try these ideas on for size! Without ado, 5 ways to orgasm more intensely.

#1 Kegels

Work out your kegel muscles. The stronger these muscles are, the more sensitive you will be vaginally, during intercourse. They increase circulation in your genital area. Your kegel muscles or pubococcygeus muscles (PC) include your clitoris, G-spot, and even some areas of your thighs. You can locate these muscles by squeezing to stop the flow of urination.

Empty your bladder and start to squeeze and hold these muscles. Squeezing in short pulses and longer intervals will strengthen the muscles. Remember don't preform these exercises while urinating. Repeatedly stoping the flow can cause reflux, and send urine back up your urethra. I recommend doing these exercises every time you finish using the bathroom. With discipline you can strengthen these muscles so much you may be able to orgasm by flexing them.

#2 Breathe

We love Kegels so much, we wrote an entire article on how to do Kegels, and also Kegel toys. Breathing brings more oxygen into your bloodstream. Consciously, controlling your breathing will immediately enhance your sexual experiences. Controlling your breathing soothes tension and brings more life and energy to your cells.

Panting promotes arousal and sexual excitability. Pant from your stomach, not your throat. Sometimes, this just happens involuntarily -- but make it a point to focus on your breathe. Breathing in through your mouth and out through your nose slows the build of erotic sensation. Curl your tongue or press it against the roof of your mouth. Breathe in and hold your breath. Exhale through your nose. It's also a cooling breath.

#3 Anticipate

Orgasms aren't all about the finish line. The journey is just as important. The more anticipation that is built up on the road to orgasm, the bigger the release. It slows and stretches things out. Either way you work this, both parties will have the chance to build anticipation. Tension orgasms are shorter and less intense. It involves holding your breath and squeezing/tensing your muscles. When you relax and make the road to orgasm last longer, the end will be a more intense, bigger, and longer release.

This anticipation doesn't begin and end in the bedroom. Send each other erotic pictures. Describe what you want in text messages. Set up a surprise homemade dinner or bubble bath to soak in. You can build anticipation during sex. Get to the brink of orgasm and switch positions. The tension will build up and it has to be released. That orgasmic release will get bigger the more you delay it.

#4 Explore

There are areas on a woman's body that are also sensitive before and during sex. In the lips, tongue, neck, and shoulders there are millions of nerve endings. They are very sensitive to touching and kissing. There are erogenous zones all over a woman's body. Trying new positions will up the pleasure. And even new locations. Having sex in 'dangerous' places or in thrill-seeking ways will release dopamine-which is also released during orgasm. So adding more increases the intensity. Even in a different room in your living space!

Let your partner whisper in your ears. The ears are a link straight to one of the body's most sensitive areas during stimulation, the brain. Gently blowing on the ears will send shivers down your spine. The neck is just as sensitive. Light kisses and bites will be just as exciting.

Your scalp is sensitive as well. Each strand of hair is attached to it by a nerve ending. Meaning there are thousands of opportunities to deliver more stimulation.

And during orgasm, let your partner gently pull your hair. Pulling your hair surprisingly releases endorphins, which will increase your orgasm.

#5 Relax

Your mind is the first thing to relax. Don't focus on delivering mind blowing orgasms. The pressure can be overwhelming. Especially if you aren't successful. Performance anxiety can exist in the bedroom and can lead to all types of problems. Relaxation is the solution to stress. The focus should be on your connection with your partner. Focus on the passion of your love and your attraction. Relaxation will make both of your bodies better able to orgasm.

You can have all the tricks in the world, but if your thoughts are elsewhere and you aren't relaxed, you won't be able to orgasm. Communication during sex can help with relaxing also. If you don't trust your partner, or vice versa, you won't be completely open. Keep the lines of communication open. Giving your body to your partner, includes giving your mind and trust just as much. Focus on the moment and not on other activities. We even have tips on staying in the moment sexually!


This is another wonderful post by GetLusty staff writer and lover of amazing orgasms, Milan Weasley. She's pretty amazing. In fact, Milan is one of GetLusty for Couples' first lesbian writers. (Ah! Dykes and dildos!) She spends her days procrastinating grad school and her nights procrastinating everything else. She enjoys writing, gogo dancing, sewing, pole dancing, and defending the Oxford comma.

Questions, comments or article ideas? Get in touch with Milan at milan@getlusty.com or on her Tumblr.
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