- It will keep you on your toes sexually (and literally)
- You can speed things up or slow them down, as long as you're not pulling any of your partner's muscles.
- Having this perspective of your partner may be new to you. Watching and hearing his/her expressions from a new angle will be a huge turn-on.
- When you're both vertical, sex is more intimate. It's not just one person fucking the other. It's more equal with no one dominating.
- It's two exercises in one. Your abs will get a nice workout and you'll be stretching your legs as well.
- Being so close, you can communicate preferences with your partner.
- This position will test your sexual fitness levels so as to determine whether you can explore more challenging positions.
How to get into it
It's important for the receiver to be flexible here. If not, then the position is adjustable.
First, surprise your partner in the kitchen, or at the table by coming up behind them and kissing their neck. We'll skip past the foreplay for the sake of the article.
Bam! You're both naked and leaning against the counter or table. Lift your partner up onto the counter and slide yourself into her. To make it easier on your partner, lay him/her back onto the surface. Gently bring their legs up and rest them against your chest and shoulders. Now, very slowly, lean toward her.
Receivers, grab onto your partner's shoulders or clasp your hands behind their neck.
Givers, straighten yourself out and stand tall.
Benefits for the giver
Benefits for the receiver
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And thanks to SoFeminine.co.uk for this wonderful recommendation.
