Men, we have already given you advice on how to have multiple orgasms. We've worked through penis anatomy, and reviewed by male orgasm is different from ejaculation. We even talked with prostate pleasure expert Charlie Glickman on prostate play. But let's talk more specifically about the prostate orgasm specifically. How does one have this amazing orgasm? How do we give it? The prostate is the doorway to your most intense and lengthy orgasms. Also read up on Prostate Milking 101 if you want to jump right into it. Here, Tia Champagne is bringing you some much needed information on the very often forgotten prostate and how you can give your partner the ultimate prostate orgasm!
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As you can see at GetLusty, there are tons of articles and medical research involved with understanding the vagina and female orgasm. But if you ever do a little research on the prostate, one of the main sexual organs of male mammals, there is not too much to be found. So, this article is written to shed some light on what it is, what it can do, and how you can make it do it.
Get acquainted with anatomy
A healthy prostate is about the size of a walnut and is smacked between the bladder and the penis. The prostate produces fluid that nourishes and protects sperm as it allows it to be squeezed through the urethra during ejaculation. Basically, the prostate holds a large role in how male ejaculation occurs and what we see as a result.
However, many people are unaware that the prostate is a huge part in male sexual arousal. Some people even call it the male G-spot. Is it? Can it be for you? Of course. Giving sexual arousal to the prostate is commonly called “milking” the prostate because it releases a creamy, white fluid. Even though it probably is easier to milk a cow than a prostate, few are sure of how to do it and where to start.
Here are three suggestions to give him an amazing prostate orgasm:
#1 Get comfortable, use lubricant, and apply pressure!
Tell your man to lay on his back—they tend to find it enjoyable and comfortable. When experimenting with any anal action, it is important to be well-lubricated so fingers, vibrators, or tongues, (oh my!) could be inserted with ease. If you are using your hand, make sure your fingers are pointing towards the testicles. Hopefully, you’ll get some positive feedback from your partner and when figuring out which spot is most sensitive, apply pressure as you move your fingers downward. This, my friends, is milking the prostate.
#2 Stroke his penis
When approaching orgasm, take one hand and start stroking the penis. Many times, this allows for a man to not just have a quick cum, but instead, have a more steady flow of semen excrete while orgasming. These orgasms tend to be a little longer, a lot more intense, and totally worth a try.
#3 Play with his perineum
For those of you who aren’t ready to insert your own fingers into your rectum or have someone insert them in yours, you could always try feeling the perineum, which is the area underneath the testicles and in between the anus and testicles. This place is a man’s best-kept secret. And ladies and gents, he wants you to find it. It’s there. For some men, it helps increase orgasm when stimulated. How? Rub against it while stroking or blowing his penis and if he groans, you’ll know what I’m talking about.
So for those of you who want to try something new or just need a little shriek in your week, try playing with the underside and inside of your man’s genitals. And please, if you have any questions or want to share how it went for you, feel free to email me at reply@getlusty.com.
As a third-wave feminist, she currently works in the makeup industry promoting what she believes in: women should feel and be as beautiful as they want to without scrutiny. She believes in teaching factual and healthy outlooks on sex and relationships as a way to create a sex-positive culture where future generations can thrive.
