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Gents! 6 Ways NOT To Ask for Head
Quite a few men offline and online have asked this question. How can I get my partner to give me head? As usual, we're here to help. We understand asking your partner for a blowjob can be tricky. Most importantly, gentlemen, you don't want to appear to be a selfish lover. So for now, let's review the ways not to get a blowjob. GetLusty writer Crimson Love reports.
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#1 Don't be a selfish lover
If you are not willing to go down on your woman, don't even bother asking for a blowjob. Reciprocation is the best way to receive more love. Give and ye shall receive. Start enjoying cunnilingus. Ensuring that your lady comes first is the key to a great sex life. If she isn't orgasming (and you should know this by asking her, for example), how do you expect she's going to be extremely interested in your pleasure? She's worried about how she's going to be able to orgasm--not you! Not to worry, gents. We'll have more on selfish loving soon! And plenty of cunnilingus tips, too. Suffice to say, your goal should be her pleasure!
#2 Give positive feedback
As ladies, we don't enjoy hearing how horrible we are at giving head. Besides, how is that supposed to give me enthusiasm about going down on you? Don't tell her she should blow you because she needs the practice. That might get you a punch in the balls rather than get her to suck them. Instead, try telling her how much you enjoy feeling her mouth on your throbbing penis. That they've been waiting for her wonderful mouth. Tell her she makes you feel so amazing after you know she's been pleasured.
#3 Realize it's a privilege
Receiving head is a privilege. Not a right. So when you demand a blowjob as an expectation because, "that's what women do," you're very wrong. Be positive, and don't be demanding. When I say this, I mean don't act entitled like it's her life's mission to blow you all the time. Be patient. If you think that a blowjob should happen everyday--please tell your partner. Talk to her about it. Unless she's absolutely in love with giving you head, she should be aware of your issue.
#4 Don't compare your lady
If your lady isn't in the mood to give you a blowjob, don't compare her to your ex or an old fling. If you think it will inspire some sort of competition and make her want to do it, you're wrong. It won't and may likely do the opposite. Trying to trump up competition isn't a loving thing to do. Instead, try telling her how amazing it was the last time she did provide you that amazing pleasure of giving you an amazing blowjob. She's amazing! No one can please you like she can. That will get you much closer to getting a blowjob in the future.
#5 Don't coerce
Don't just force her head down there. I am pretty sure that if you do, you won't find her down there again any time soon. We women don't want to feel force or coercion. Why? Well, it provides negative associations moving forward. If she's experienced trauma in the past, you may be heading down a road of therapy--or even just long conversations about boundaries. Be nice and you will receive nice actions back.
If she refuses after your efforts just let it go and don't get mad. Instead try to figure out why she said no. Be empathetic. There is likely a good reason why your lady isn't feeling in the mood to go down on you. Maybe she has a negative association. Could you imagine being in her position? If she got mad at you for not going down on her? It'd feel pretty bad.
Keep sex amazing, gents! Be patient, nice and understanding. We'll respond with love and amazing head. If not now--soon!
Crimson is our resident BDSM fetish expert. If you don't see Crimson out dining with her adoring boyfriend, you'll find her reading books on innovation or finance. Crimson is currently finishing off her Bachelor's, she is passionate about food, photography, music and especially sex--and she's not afraid to talk about it. With everyone!
Have story ideas? Get in touch with Crimson Love at amber@getlusty.com.
Alvin And Vivian Sumptuous Erotica Malaysian Sex Blog Exposed With Nude Photos And Sex Videos
Okay, we have a little sex scandal brewing in Malaysia. This interesting episode is starring two Malaysians by the name of Vivian and Alvin who are apparently exposing their sex life on their tumblr blog. And interesting enough is the fact that they appear to be using their real names and are linking to their real Facebook pages. At first I thought someone was leaking the nude photos of this couple and impersonating them to maximize any embarrassment. But more and more it seems these two are happily sharing their sex life and it is not some other person who is behind the leaked photos and videos. Another thought was that Alvin was sharing Vivian's naked photos and sex videos without her permission because of a falling out but this does not appear to be the case. Both Vivian and Alvin are fully exposed on the blog and in the vids and pics without any attempt by Alvin to conceal his face. So this is a true sex blogging couple freely documenting their sexual encounters for pubic view of anyone willing to log on to the blog. Hopefully the added attention from being posted on the Gutter Uncensored won't scare them away from their blogging. Here is the intro on their sex blog:
Hey peeps, Alvin and Vivian here. We love posting our sex life on the web for everyone to enjoy, and we upload only our self-made content.P.S. View all art at once via the archive
P.P.S. If you're an attractive couple into swinging living in Malaysia/Singapore, hit us up too!
With that last "hit us up" part linking to the email address: alvivi.swingers@gmail.com for anyone interested in swinging with them. Yep, Malaysian swingers who are fully open about their alternative lifestyle publicly. They seem to be well-known on the Malaysia and Singapore swinger scene. And the "Sumptuous Erotica" blog have been gaining popularity fast in recent days with many Malaysians chatting about it on Facebook and on web forums. Sex blogs are nothing new for Malaysians but usually they are very secretive and never this this open and public. Alvin and Vivian not only use their names but they did not even attempt to conceal their faces in the photos and videos. The nude photos and sex video may have been recorded in Malaysia and/or Singapore but some could have been shot else where. You can watch the streaming videos or download them from the links available below.
Alvin And Vivian First Sex Video - Rape Play:
Alvin And Vivian Second Sex Video - Blowjob Queen:
Alvin And Vivian Third Sex Video - Hot Sex in Kuala Lumpur:
Download the Video After the Screen Shots Below!
So, if Alvin and Vivian are sharing everything on their sex blog without embarrassment then this post on Gutter Uncensored should not adversely affect their blogging. Just give them huge traffic and a massive fan base to further their goal of everyone enjoying their sex life. However they might decide to stop blogging and delete their blog after gaining too much fame from this post on Gutter Uncensored so we downloaded the entire "Sumptuous Erotica" thus it will live on after today. I hope they keep blogging though... Enjoy! Click on pictures to enlarge.
Alvin Tan:
Vivian Lee:
The Screen Shots.
First Sex Video - Rape Play:
Second Sex Video - Blowjob Queen:
Third Sex Video - Hot Sex in Kuala Lumpur:
Source: http://www.GutterUncensored.comHere are a few pictures and video of supposedly a Malaysian couple sharing their sex life on a blog. The girl is Vivian Lee and the guy is Alvin Tan. The two have upload many nude and sex photos to the blog thus far and three sex videos. The first video is a rape play fantasy video shot to simulate a rape scene with Vivian pretending to fight off Alvin in bed. The second video is a blowjob oral sex scene with Vivian sucking off Alvin until he cum in her mouth. The third video is a normal sex video with the two fucking in many different positions. The photos show a bit of everything including nude photos of both Vivian and Alvin. Links to the blog and the photos have been spreading via emails and at least five tipsters have emailed with info on this story to GutterUncensored@yahoo.com. Here is a sample of a recent email letting us know about this interesting story:
Hey,You might want to check Vivian Lee at her nude blog. She is Malaysian and being a nudist here in Malaysia is very taboo and controversial.Here is her blog url: http://alvivi.tumblr.com/Her facebook: http://www.facebook.com/sexychocoholicbabeShe had sex with several MMU students. She just graduated this October in MMU Cyberjaya Melaka. She is from Johor Malaysia.
So, if Alvin and Vivian are sharing everything on their sex blog without embarrassment then this post on Gutter Uncensored should not adversely affect their blogging. Just give them huge traffic and a massive fan base to further their goal of everyone enjoying their sex life. However they might decide to stop blogging and delete their blog after gaining too much fame from this post on Gutter Uncensored so we downloaded the entire "Sumptuous Erotica" thus it will live on after today. I hope they keep blogging though... Enjoy! Click on pictures to enlarge.
Alvin Tan:
Vivian Lee:
The Screen Shots.
First Sex Video - Rape Play:
Second Sex Video - Blowjob Queen:
Third Sex Video - Hot Sex in Kuala Lumpur:
Download
Alvin And Vivian First Sex Video - Rape Play
File Size: 48 MB - Format: MP4 - Runtime: 6:06 minutes
http://uploaded.net/file/b102a8yf
or
http://rapidgator.net/file/50788315/rapeplay-compressed.mp4.html
or
http://filemarkets.com/file/malooic/4ef7d355/
or
http://www.HenchFile.com/1gwojh8izc7q
or
http://fiberupload.com/3abunuy79n7p/_play-compressed.mp4
Alvin And Vivian Second Sex Video - Blowjob Queen
File Size: 15.9 MB - Format: MP4 - Runtime: 2:02 minutes
http://uploaded.net/file/ba4te8ww
or
http://rapidgator.net/file/50791531/blowjobqueen.mp4.html
or
http://filemarkets.com/file/malooic/b3f1cafd/
or
http://www.HenchFile.com/xpa6br8wv5j1
or
http://fiberupload.com/4nev1t03z0xl/_queen.mp4
Alvin And Vivian Third Sex Video - Hot Sex in Kuala Lumpur
File Size: 62.2 MB - Format: MP4 - Runtime: 7:57 minutes
http://uploaded.net/file/r5l15ux0
or
http://rapidgator.net/file/50792811/hotsexinkualalumpur.mp4.html
or
http://filemarkets.com/file/malooic/ed2398b5/
or
http://www.HenchFile.com/wrxvn8lomc1a
or
http://fiberupload.com/mko71unyez76/hot_inkualalumpur.mp4
Source: http://www.GutterUncensored.com
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Remember to become a fan on Facebook, do it right now! And send more photos or videos to GutterUncensored@yahoo.com of scandalous behavior. Send real and uncensored pictures or videos of celebrities or politicians or person of note or any public figure to: GutterUncensored@yahoo.com. Please include the person's full name and a short back story. Looking for more contributions from Hong Kong, Brazil, Philippines, Japan, Mexico, China, Columbia, Taiwan, Russia, Indonesia, Germany, France, South Korea and India. But contributions from Singapore and Malaysia and ALL countries for that matter are welcome!
Thanks to several anonymous contributors.
