It's Orgasm October. Every female should be able to experience orgasms throughout her life. Not only do orgasms give us an amazing feeling, but they are also healthy! Yet, we still hear about women not reaching their orgasm potential or have never even experienced the magic that is an orgasm. But why is this? Devi Ward, an international authentic tantra educator and sensual empowerment coach, has a few reasons for this. Start reaching your orgasm potential today with a little help from Devi!
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Set goals to reach your orgasm potential
There’s a lot of talk these days about women & orgasm: 8 different kinds vs. none. Questions like: is it easy, is it difficult, should we focus on it, or not put so much pressure on ourselves for the “end goal” of climax.
I and GetLusty encourage women to explore their multi-orgasmic potential, and discover the more than 8 different kinds of orgasm our bodies are capable of. For examples, there are 3 kinds of orgasms and 3 more kinds of orgasms for ladies. Some people say that this “goal oriented” approach to sexuality causes women to feel inadequate. Then, they aren’t able to achieve those results, as it sets them up for failure, disappointment and a lifetime of sexual dissatisfaction.
Well that’s one point of view. Here’s mine:
Imagine that you have in your hands the most technologically advanced computer on the planet, capable of mathematically calibrating dimensional portals into other realms of existence.
With the potential to open the entire human race to universal awareness & connection with higher states of consciousness. Now imagine that you had no idea that your computer was capable of such a thing. You thought it was just an ordinary Mac or PC, and just like everybody else, had been operating it as such. Operating at maybe 10% of it’s actual potential.
Next, imagine that you encountered someone who had used this particular computer before, and knew it’s true capabilities. This person could see that you had no idea the potential of what you held in your hands. This person had also mistaken this technologically advanced vehicle for a mere laptop, at one time, but had learned it’s true abilities, and discovered how to maximize it’s potential.
And what if this person said to you- “Hey, do you know what you have in your hands?! Oh my god! You can transform life as you know it with that device. That machine is the key to the kingdom of heaven, not just for yourself, but for all of humankind!
All you need to do to access it’s full potential is:
a) Understand what it’s capable of.
b) Understand why it hasn’t been operating at its optimum level.
c) Slowly and carefully tune it up; recalibrate it.
Add an app here, do a virus scan there, work out the kinks and you’ll be flying high! Wouldn’t you want to know that? Wouldn’t you want to know if your operating system was running on only 10% of it’s full potential? Wouldn’t you want to find out WHY that was happening and change it if you could, so that you were running at 100% of your capacity, or at least moving in that direction? I say all of this because I was one of those non-orgasmic, inadequate feeling, sexually repressed, “average” women.
I talk about the eight different orgasms for women because I personally experience them. I went from one standard clitoral orgasm during self-stimulation to multi-orgasmic. Also, no orgasms with my partners, painful penetration, and a complete inability to communicate about my sexuality. To now being regularly multi-orgasmic, fully and lovingly expressive about my sexuality, and emotionally, spiritually & mentally free in ways I never even knew existed.
Have I realized my ultimate potential? Nope. Not even close. And that is what is so exciting! I have amazing tools, and I use them, and I continue to grow & expand beyond my current personal & sexual boundaries.
I continue to awaken to even more of my personal orgasmic potential as a woman. I celebrate this loudly because I believe that every woman has a right to know what her true sexual potential is, and have ways to access and explore that potential everyday. I believe that it is our birthright as women to understand the full pleasure potential of our bodies and have healthy role models who have begun to realize and embody this. Now as a woman, I ask you, does that make you feel inadequate?
Originally posted at Authentic Tantra.
Devi Ward is an International Authentic Tantra Educator & Sensual Empowerment Coach. Devi has been on a path of Erotic Awakening and Spiritual Embodiment since 1993, studying meditation, holistic healing arts, and alternative forms of erotic expression. Devi has been a Professional Sensual Movement Artist since 1992.
Devi is the Founder of Feminine Emergence and creator of Sacred Erotic Dance™; a Movement-Healing modality that uses The 5 Core Pelvic Movements™, Authentic Tantra™ & Sensual Dance, to produce physical, emotional and spiritual healing in our relationship to sexual and sensual self-expression. Her new book “Shake Your Soul Song! A Woman’s Guide To Self-Empowerment Through The Art of Self-Pleasure” will release in October 2012. Follow Devi on Twitter @deviwardtantra and on Facebook.
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Set goals to reach your orgasm potential
There’s a lot of talk these days about women & orgasm: 8 different kinds vs. none. Questions like: is it easy, is it difficult, should we focus on it, or not put so much pressure on ourselves for the “end goal” of climax.
I and GetLusty encourage women to explore their multi-orgasmic potential, and discover the more than 8 different kinds of orgasm our bodies are capable of. For examples, there are 3 kinds of orgasms and 3 more kinds of orgasms for ladies. Some people say that this “goal oriented” approach to sexuality causes women to feel inadequate. Then, they aren’t able to achieve those results, as it sets them up for failure, disappointment and a lifetime of sexual dissatisfaction.
Well that’s one point of view. Here’s mine:
Imagine that you have in your hands the most technologically advanced computer on the planet, capable of mathematically calibrating dimensional portals into other realms of existence.
With the potential to open the entire human race to universal awareness & connection with higher states of consciousness. Now imagine that you had no idea that your computer was capable of such a thing. You thought it was just an ordinary Mac or PC, and just like everybody else, had been operating it as such. Operating at maybe 10% of it’s actual potential.
Next, imagine that you encountered someone who had used this particular computer before, and knew it’s true capabilities. This person could see that you had no idea the potential of what you held in your hands. This person had also mistaken this technologically advanced vehicle for a mere laptop, at one time, but had learned it’s true abilities, and discovered how to maximize it’s potential.
And what if this person said to you- “Hey, do you know what you have in your hands?! Oh my god! You can transform life as you know it with that device. That machine is the key to the kingdom of heaven, not just for yourself, but for all of humankind!
All you need to do to access it’s full potential is:
a) Understand what it’s capable of.
b) Understand why it hasn’t been operating at its optimum level.
c) Slowly and carefully tune it up; recalibrate it.
Add an app here, do a virus scan there, work out the kinks and you’ll be flying high! Wouldn’t you want to know that? Wouldn’t you want to know if your operating system was running on only 10% of it’s full potential? Wouldn’t you want to find out WHY that was happening and change it if you could, so that you were running at 100% of your capacity, or at least moving in that direction? I say all of this because I was one of those non-orgasmic, inadequate feeling, sexually repressed, “average” women.
I talk about the eight different orgasms for women because I personally experience them. I went from one standard clitoral orgasm during self-stimulation to multi-orgasmic. Also, no orgasms with my partners, painful penetration, and a complete inability to communicate about my sexuality. To now being regularly multi-orgasmic, fully and lovingly expressive about my sexuality, and emotionally, spiritually & mentally free in ways I never even knew existed.
Have I realized my ultimate potential? Nope. Not even close. And that is what is so exciting! I have amazing tools, and I use them, and I continue to grow & expand beyond my current personal & sexual boundaries.
I continue to awaken to even more of my personal orgasmic potential as a woman. I celebrate this loudly because I believe that every woman has a right to know what her true sexual potential is, and have ways to access and explore that potential everyday. I believe that it is our birthright as women to understand the full pleasure potential of our bodies and have healthy role models who have begun to realize and embody this. Now as a woman, I ask you, does that make you feel inadequate?
Originally posted at Authentic Tantra.
Devi Ward is an International Authentic Tantra Educator & Sensual Empowerment Coach. Devi has been on a path of Erotic Awakening and Spiritual Embodiment since 1993, studying meditation, holistic healing arts, and alternative forms of erotic expression. Devi has been a Professional Sensual Movement Artist since 1992. Devi is the Founder of Feminine Emergence and creator of Sacred Erotic Dance™; a Movement-Healing modality that uses The 5 Core Pelvic Movements™, Authentic Tantra™ & Sensual Dance, to produce physical, emotional and spiritual healing in our relationship to sexual and sensual self-expression. Her new book “Shake Your Soul Song! A Woman’s Guide To Self-Empowerment Through The Art of Self-Pleasure” will release in October 2012. Follow Devi on Twitter @deviwardtantra and on Facebook.
