Dating can be beautiful in a long-term relationship, but sometimes there are disasters. Has this happened to you? You feel like the date was totally pointless. But it doesn't have to be that way. Even when things go wrong on your date, it can still be a lusty experience.
We've talked a lot about dating. We've given you 7 date ideas and why you should date (each other) while in a relationship. To follow up, we would like to present you with some dating disasters and how you can avoid them or handle them (if avoiding it isn't an option). Our Crimson Love reports.
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1. Don't pull a Janet!
Life is unpredictable particularly when it comes to wardrobe malfunctions. To prevent this from happening, take a look at yourself in the mirror and seek out weaknesses in your ensemble.
Look for weak heals on your pumps, look for tears and holes that have the potential to get bigger and other things of that nature. If you take inventory of these things you can avoid them all together or prepare to fix them later.
I'm over prepared but I always carry extra. Always carry with you, a mini sewing kit, a Tide to-go pen, some garment tape, deodorant and a spare pair of underwear. You will thank me later! If you can't avoid this just be graceful and your lover will thank you for not making a huge scene.
Weather can certainly dampen the mood on a date. Before you go out with your sweetie make sure you check the weather and plan accordingly. If it says it's going to rain make sure you both carry an umbrella.
If it's going to be extra hot or cold make sure you both dress accordingly. Here in Chicago our notorious winter is around the corner so that means bundling up or spending time together indoors.
3. Car trouble
Personally, I enjoy public transportation--though having your own car can be very useful. If you are a driver, take extra precautions. Make sure you have enough gas and enough money when you do run into car trouble. Always carry a spare tire and some tools to help in case of a car emergency. If all else fails makes sure that your phone is charged so you can call AAA or a friend for help. Because you never know.
It happens. Sometimes we just don't agree with our lovers or we just have bad days. If you are out when your partner gets upset, just simply say you would like to talk about it in the car or when you get home.
If you can't avoid this and you or your lover start to make a public scene just pause and walk away. Don't make it worse than it already is and resolve the issue at home. Chances are you will calm down on the car ride home.
Life happens and when it does, it can sometimes be disastrous. So, if you are on a date make sure you're prepared and ready to handle the worst.
With love from, Get Lusty!
This is a guest post by our very own Crimson Love. Crimson is our resident BDSM fetish expert. If you don't see Crimson out dining with her adoring boyfriend, you'll find her reading books on innovation or finance. Crimson is currently finishing off her Bachelor's, she is passionate about food, photography, music and especially sex--and she's not afraid to talk about it. With everyone!
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