Since it's 50 Shades of Grey September, we have been writing a lot about BDSM and the 50 Shades trilogy. We have had writers talk about their experiences and I have talked about 50 Shades inspired fantasies. The book has become extremely popular in the last several months and for good reason. It gives us a peek into the sexy, complicated and lovely world of BDSM. However, the peek we are given in 50 Shades is quite unrealistic.
How so? We are glad you asked! Here is a list of the top six ways 50 Shades of Grey is completely unrealistic!
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1. A Dom taking in a virgin as a submissive
While there is a small percentage who might prefer a virgin, most Doms prefer women who are sexually experienced.
2. The crazy, rich and reclusive Dom
While reclusive people are not a rarity in this kind of lifestyle, the fact that he is super wealthy is not something that you will magically stumble upon. Add the fact that he picks a mousy college student...it's certainly a dream.
3. A virgin who was recently deflowered gets into kink
We highly doubt that if you recently loose your virginity you're going to find yourself quickly segwaying into kink of any kind. Exploring your sexuality takes time. After a few months we can understand, but after only a couple of weeks?
4. A 21 year old being handed their own company
We don't care if you're 35, if you have not proven to me over the course of a year or more that you can run a company than we are certainly not going to buy one and give it to you. As smart as Christian Grey is, he makes some crazy decisions.
5. A man that rich not signing a prenupWe get that money comes in bountiful amounts to Christian Grey. He worked hard for it and deserves it. But if you worked that hard, wouldn't you want to protect it? Especially if your marrying a 21 year-old who is not used to that kind of wealth!
6. Contract, what contract?
In the book, Christian Grey drew up a contract for Anna. It was a submissive contract. For a brand new submissive, someone who is not only new to you but new to the lifestyle, they would not get away with not signing a contract. Thank goodness she didn't get by on that nondisclosure agreement.
The world of BDSM is one hidden in a back room behind a red door. It's complex, amazing and very real. However, 50 shades is not. If you want a real peak into the BDSM life, do your research. We're here to help.
With love from, GetLusty.
This is a guest post by our very own Crimson Love. Crimson is our resident BDSM fetish expert. If you don't see Crimson out dining with her adoring boyfriend, you'll find her reading books on innovation or finance. Crimson is currently finishing off her Bachelor's, she is passionate about food, photography, music and especially sex--and she's not afraid to talk about it. With everyone!
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