4 Ways To Tell Your Man You Want Head

At the GetLusty office, we have plenty of conversations about our love lives and experiences. One of the conversations we've had was about Oral sex. We were unanimous in that receiving oral was a must when it came down to doing the deed. This is the inspiration for today's how to: how to tell your lover you need/want oral sex. Our Crimson Love reports.

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If you and your man have not gotten to a point where you're receiving oral sex and you know you want it, here are some ways to bring it up and talk about it.

1. Make a list 

Sit down together and make a list of things you both want to try sexually that you two have not done together yet. On that list make sure that you write down that you want him to give you oral sex. It will be your sexual "to do" list.

2. Show him 

If you are comfortable with porn and sharing it with your lover, find a clip of a woman receiving oral sex and share it with him. Tell him that that is what you want.

3. Have a body exploration day

Allow yourselves some time to explore each other's bodies and give attention to those places that haven't received much love. Make a point to tell each other what you want and express interest in him giving you oral.

4. Write a short erotic story for your lover

Write a short and sexy erotic story based on your fantasies about you and your lover getting frisky. In that story write about your partner giving you oral sex. When you send or share this delicious story with your honey make sure to tell them the story is based on fantasies you want to make come true.

Sometimes telling or asking your lover for something can be a little difficult especially when it comes to your sexual needs. Try some of our suggestions and get back to us in the morning!

With love from, GetLusty!



This is a guest post by our very own Crimson Love.

Crimson is our resident BDSM fetish expert. If you don't see Crimson out dining with her adoring boyfriend, you'll find her reading books on innovation or finance. Crimson is currently finishing off her Bachelor's, she is passionate about food, photography, music and especially sex--and she's not afraid to talk about it. With everyone!

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