We've been talking about dating quite a bit lately. Why? Because at GetLusty, we believe that it's such an important part about your sexual and emotional relationship! When you've been in an long-term relationship for a while, there are many things that you and your lover should consider.
We talked about dating disasters & remedies, as well as 7 date ideas , 3 other date ideas and how important it is to date your partner. Dating should not be a chore; it should be a joy and a pleasure. Without adieu, let us present to you the continuation of our dating segment.
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#1 Find the time
Timing and time is extremely important and you should set aside some of it for dates with your lover. We all seem to lack time these days but when it comes to your lovers, be generous with your time. Your dates don't have to be traditional evening outings. You can set aside time during your lunch break to get together. Even if you don't think you have the option of getting together, make sure you prioritize time together. Trust me, it will improve your love life.
#2 Make an effort
When it comes to making dates with your lover, put some thought and effort into it. Don't be afraid to invest the effort and go above and beyond.For example, instead of going to that neighborhood restaurant you always go to, try a new restaurant. Do your research on what she or he likes and try something new! You will definitely reap the benefits later in bed.
#3 Find new, exciting activities
Hitting up your usual spots can make for a nice relaxed evening but own the fact that you can try something new. Go to a new bar, or do an activity neither of you have done before. Exploring new territory will help keep things fresh between you two.
#4 Have goals
If you have a new goal for every date, you'll be sure to fulfill that goal. Make a goal to learn something new together, or to learn something new about each other. Think of something to achieve together each time. Maybe you could even have a goal of creating something special together (think: art or a house project).
#5 Debrief
You may be wondering why this even made it on the list. After your date, talk about what you liked, didn't like or even ideas for things you want to try in the future. Talk about how things made you feel so you both can get an idea about where you are emotionally in your efforts and relationship. De-briefing can be a great way to continue communication patterns for success. Remember: your biggest sex organ is your brain and communication is a great way to stimulate it!
When dating in a long-term relationship, it can get monotonous and sometimes it's non existent. Don't forget this list when you plan your next date. It's sure to add substance and meaning.
With love from, Get Lusty!
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